On good Friday the church service was a combined one over at
Fale, we have no transport however and rely on the school boat in the week and
the kindness of others at any other time, Pale offered to come and pick us all
up for the service (7 of us are quite a few extras in small boats) so at 7:15am we were scooting across the lagoon in our Sunday
best on our way to Church. The ride was lovely the beauty of the lagoon is and
will continue to be a moving and blessed thing. The church service started at
8am so Pale and Lihe invited us into their home until the church bell rang…as
we sat Pale produced a feast!! Much to the delight of our children especially
Nga and Rains, Chicken nuggets, hot chips, pancakes and milo, Lihe had prepared
these especially for us in generous abundance. We went to Church with full
stomachs, after the service we were very hot, and before we were taken home,
Pale and Lihe gave us ice water and Oranges!! (Like gold here) so amazingly generous. Lihe also gave us two beautiful church fans
she had made, which will be so so great for our Hot Sunday mornings, as we were
leaving Pale also gave us his copy of the Tokelauan new testament (only the new
testament has been translated into Tokelauan so far) to borrow until we can get
our own-it feels very much like a treasure to be able to read the gospel in
this beautiful new language we are beginning to learn…We felt so far away from
family at this significant time in the year and yet Pale and Lihe have welcomed
us in like family in spite of our otherness, radical hospitality in action…
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Our empty tomb |
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our coconut palm and pandana leaf cross |
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Ez,Nga and I with the finished tomb |
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Finishing touches before home for Easter Eggs:) |
We have been on the receiving end of much
generosity in our short time away from home, Paula and her family, who we
hardly knew, Matt had met once, hosted us in Samoa, Emanuel took us under his
wing for a day, Pale and Lihe, have kindly let us rent their home in Fenua Fale,
strangers have given us fish, crabs, drinks, the list goes on, one such act has
made Our Easter Sunday very special (especially for the kids.) We got to meet a
lovely man Falima from NZ while He was in Tokelau during the General Fono. He
is Tokelauan, but has always lived in NZ. He was very kind to us and friendly,
chatting warmly and making us feel very welcome. On the day before he left I
saw him as Rainy and I headed to preschool, He had a book on Tokelau that he
had talked to Matt about and was lending him until he comes back. He gave it to
me and then handed me two balls for the kids!!! Super exciting as we forgot to
bring one with us, one is a semi soft NZ kiwi cricket ball and one is a black
squash like ball, soft and super bouncy and lots of fun, Rainy and Ez have particularly
enjoyed these. it was
so thoughtful and kind. Then that night just as we were getting the kids to bed
He came round to say goodbye, He gently offered what he had brought round for
the children, a packet of marshmallow Easter eggs!!! We had just been talking
about how our kids would miss the usual chocolate goodies they get from family
at Easter time….we were tempted to eat them but instead put them in the freezer
where they have been until this morning (3 weeks waiting pretty good for sweet tooth’s).
After a small family reflection time at the beach, where we built the empty
tomb and cross, we came back and had a hot drink (yes hot even though the temp
is over 31 degrees already at 10am) and an Easter egg. Needless to say they were enjoyed immensely :) So Thanks Falima for blessing us when you were
here and today, your kindness and generosity will not be forgotten.
No thanks needed at all. I certainly admire your courageous family and your strength and commitment as a family to undergo such a challenging endeavour. It also shows to me the importance you place on family and intercultural relationships. I am envious that I did not place enough emphasis or commitment on such areas and that it is never too late to start doing so. I really like the way that you have an optimistic outlook on life and circumstances despite such trying conditions. So thanks you for letting me have a glimpse into your family life. It certainly is inspiring for me.
ReplyDeleteAs I sit here with my skin still peeling from my sunburn even though I have been back in NZ for a few weeks now, I am losing my tan now and missing the heat (can't believe I am saying that lol)and the life there. I am in email discussions re coming back for stints to help out in the school there. I am sorry that I cannot commit to as long a stint as you have but I just have responsibilities here that I have. Keep up the Great work and I will let you know if and when I will return for any supplies you may need from here...Talk soon
Kind Regards
Falima Fiaola
What a lovely entry. Brings tears to my eyes reading it. I never realised how far generosity reaches. I am so grateful to all these kind people who have loved on my family. thanks be to God for his love generously given to us through his people. mum Craw
ReplyDeleteMy mother's name is Lihe pls correct it her name in here sound like a swear word to me. Would be nice checking out and making sure you got it right before posting. I'm glad you guys are enjoying your stay in Tokelau.If you may send my regards to my parents Pale and Lihe
ReplyDeleteSincere apologies have now updated. We'll be sure to pass on your regards. Sorry again - didn't intend to cause offence at all.
DeleteBeautiful Matt (we did abit of work together with Goodcents Budgeting - Partners Porirua) just wanted to add lol, I've been following your blogs since day 1 - awesome bro. You and your family are such a blessing to our Tokelauan community there and in NZ and Aus. All the best there xx and please if you have time, can you send my love to my Aunty Alehi Kilino (or Lehi)..beautiful name.
ReplyDeleteLove to you, Chrissie ma na tamaiti's xx
Jewelz Kilino
Thanks Jewelz, nice to hear from you and thanks for your kinds comments. I'm glad you're enjoying the blog. Matt and family
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